The child becomes the most important thing in your life. When the kid sneezes then you panic if it's your first. Everything else is really secondary and irrelev

The child becomes the most important thing in your life. When the kid sneezes then you panic if it's your first. Everything else is really secondary and irrelevant until you find your feet. You get zero free time initially and any ideas you have about continuing hobbies in the coming months are not gonna happen. The only thing more stressful than your first is twins as your first.