I have no free time to code or game any more, and when i'm playing with the little psychos I don't miss it at all. Spend more time on my phone though, due to t

I have no free time to code or game any more, and when i'm playing with the little psychos I don't miss it at all. Spend more time on my phone though, due to the opportunity cost of doing anything except reading books(now web serials) in short bursts. Harder to be spontaneous about weekends now, have to plan things out more because of all the work in taking small children out for the day. My wife and I have strong opinions on different kids shows. Two pieces of advice: Once they're on solids, brush their teeth twice a day. If they haven't spoken more than 5 words in their first 18mo, ignore everyone saying "they're just slow talkers, it's fine" and take them to a speech therapist. If you don't need it, awesome. If you do, early intervention has more impact.