What it really comes down to is that you're too weak to be yourself. This might hurt to hear, but you're a coward if you let gender roles stop you from enjoyin

What it really comes down to is that you're too weak to be yourself. This might hurt to hear, but you're a coward if you let gender roles stop you from enjoying something. I sincerely recommend reading some theory on gender. Gender Trouble by Judith Butler is a surprisingly approachable introduction to the subject, despite not being written as such.