My wife is my wife and every dollar I earn is 50% hers (same the other way). If divorce has to come my way, reality is we always lived with the assumption that

My wife is my wife and every dollar I earn is 50% hers (same the other way). If divorce has to come my way, reality is we always lived with the assumption that everything is split by 50%. We talk to each other when spending money on lavish things,which is actually a good sanity check