There's a giant gap between "you're entitled to live wherever you want" and "too bad, go live in the middle of nowhere." My read is that the person you're resp

There's a giant gap between "you're entitled to live wherever you want" and "too bad, go live in the middle of nowhere." My read is that the person you're responding to is in the middle of that gap; and your response frames them as being on one extreme edge and then says an acceptable answer is to go to the other extreme edge.