"The problem lies with you." You yourself are hypocritically writing in a direct, laconic style while advising Felipe to politely tip toe around sensitivity is

"The problem lies with you." You yourself are hypocritically writing in a direct, laconic style while advising Felipe to politely tip toe around sensitivity issues. Why aren't you yourself trying to "empathize" with Felipe and whatever culture he's from? To be clear, I obviously like direct communication. I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy of this comment chain.