What you propose, either way, means there would no visibility on the cheating. I tend to agree, I basically do that, but it's dangerous too. You gotta have so

What you propose, either way, means there would no visibility on the cheating. I tend to agree, I basically do that, but it's dangerous too. You gotta have some feel for it. Friends of friends. They can have mutual friends, information passes that way. That is what I propose as compromise.