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Couple of thoughts: 1. The friend was an a******. 2. I find that the vast majority of people who complain about being interrupted tend to be run-on-sentence p
by tpoacher 4y ago
Couple of thoughts:
1. The friend was an a******.
2. I find that the vast majority of people who complain about being interrupted tend to be run-on-sentence people. Let's call them "The Uninterruptibles". It baffles me that this kind of person doesn't consider it to be rude when dominating the conversation for 20 minutes without a single entry point for dialogue, jumping into 10 different topics in that time, but is offended by the inevitable interruption when they try to jump onto the 6th topic without even a full-stop.
3. Interrupters rarely get interrupted, because they generally think in single topics and talk in full sentences. This is in fact the crux of most interruptions: completing one argument or solidifying understanding before jumping to the next. On the rare occasion that an 'interrupter' runs-on a bit themselves, they will gladly accept a clarifying interruption, and if it's important to finish the point before moving on to the next topic, they will indicate so without feigning offense.
4. This means that in the presence of an Uninterruptible, there's a high chance the other person will necessarily become an interrupter, lest they be reduced to a mere spectator. Whereas the Uninterruptible will have plenty of opportunities to reply, interject, and so forth, without ever having to interrupt, due to normal cadence and punctuated thoughts of their conversational counterpart. This makes one person stand out even more as an 'interrupter', but it's ridiculous to blame them for it. Yet this is what happens.
- coldtea 4y ago>1. The friend was an a***. I think you've just missed the point - except if we're meant to judge anybody with an opposing view or practice as an asshole. The (imaginary) friend patiently made his case, gave examples, didn't condemn his friend for being what he is, or the others, nor took it to insults and sentimentality. >I find that the vast majority of people who complain about being interrupted tend to be run-on-sentence people. Let's call them "The Uninterruptibles". The post article covers those people, under the "barkers" moniker, and no, they're a different category from the main one discussed (which both interrupt and enjoy being interrupted).