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Different cultural styles sometimes conflict. I liked Deborah Tannen's "You Just Don't Understand". She describes this pro-interruption style as "competitive"
by rgoulter 4y ago
Different cultural styles sometimes conflict.
I liked Deborah Tannen's "You Just Don't Understand".
She describes this pro-interruption style as "competitive", whereas pro-taking-turns is "collaborative".
Of course, if you have some people whose ruleset is "compete/joust", and some whose ruleset is "collaborate/defer", there'll be tension.
Overall, Tannen reckoned that those who get the short end of the stick would benefit from different cultural styles being acknowledged, and why it might lead to conflict.