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As someone who's been an interlocutor for six decades, my concern is the reverse. Yes there are people who love to dominate no matter what - and interrupt anyti
by Nomentatus 4y ago
As someone who's been an interlocutor for six decades, my concern is the reverse. Yes there are people who love to dominate no matter what - and interrupt anytime.
But there are far more people who think that conversation is either a monologue or an exchange of monologues - and it absolutely is not.
An interjection is not an interruption, and conversation IS a contract; meaning that the subject must be of interest to both parties, and signed on to by both parties or be abandoned quickly. A short introduction of a new topic of interest to you is all you get, if the other party doesn't pick that topic up, then it's on to the next possible or proposed topic, period.
Conversation is back and forth, a distinction made clear in ancient Greek plays because only slaves at that time had to endure monologues; so to subject another free citizen to behavior only a slave had to endure was calculated to offend mortally.
To modify Ibsen's advice: "If you don't want to be interrupted, buy a dog."
- aporetics 4y agoI didn’t know that, about Greek plays. Thank you.