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Interesting PoV! Thanks for sharing :) There are different kinds of interrupters 1 - people who want to let you know they know what you're about to say - migh
by jan_Inkepa 4y ago
Interesting PoV! Thanks for sharing :)
There are different kinds of interrupters
1 - people who want to let you know they know what you're about to say - might save everyone time.
2 - people who aren't interested in what's being said and want to say what they want to say.
3 - people who know better than the person who's talking.
4 - a tangent/aside (when I tangent interrupt I always try when I'm done to ask the person I interrupted to continue).
5 - rephrasing things ("do you mean this?"), asking for confirmation that stuff was understood. If I feel someone's monologuing excessively and losing me because of it (and being bad enough at reading body language to not realise it), I tend to do this (which can turn into a kind of interrogation scenario where I lead by questions, which isn't great, but it's better than having my eyes glaze).
5b - Asking for information about things I don't understand.
On the other side I know some people can speak very slowly, with lots of filler words - it's like they're monopolising the air with...'hmmmm' 'uuuh'...basically nothing, and that can be as annoying as being interrupted. And then you have giant wind-bags.
Conversational dynamics can be tricky things. I don't want anyone getting bummed out if I'm talking to them, and I don't want to lose them. Sometimes my conversation partner isn't so finely attuned to these things so I have to try steer things, and I'm sure people do that with me sometimes as well.
- rollinDyno 4y ago4 and 5 don't really seem interruption in the sense the article refers to. Yes, they're not letting you say right away what you had in mind to say, but they have every intention to eventually let you make your point.