I think good conversation is lot about confidence of people involved. I had terrible conversations (or at least their attempts) where people threw at me questio

I think good conversation is lot about confidence of people involved. I had terrible conversations (or at least their attempts) where people threw at me questions so quickly I haven't had chance to plant some doorknobs. Many of encounters where I had to resist their "and you?" questions, as I saw an opportunity to expand on what they were saying. Which I find weird because then I am completely terrible at group conversations (as there is already taker & giver, so I just go to role of listener)