We can say "you can't do that" with a smile and encouragement. Does that come off as curmudgeonly? We all have bad days/weeks. (Sorry, everyone!) I've certainl

We can say "you can't do that" with a smile and encouragement. Does that come off as curmudgeonly? We all have bad days/weeks. (Sorry, everyone!) I've certainly seen politics and personal itches wrapped as organizational policy. Think of the good principal as a fire marshal, preventing umpteen fires down the line. Believe me, better to build to the fire codes. Even though firefighters get all the glory.