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not sure what kind of people you met, but they seemed very unhappy and too deep of themselves. People with High IQ who I met were deeply unhappy as undiagnosed
by nudpiedo 4y ago
not sure what kind of people you met, but they seemed very unhappy and too deep of themselves. People with High IQ who I met were deeply unhappy as undiagnosed and could not understand many things about the world around them. Having an IQ too high made them go through a lot of suffering, from bullying in school (not form marks but from awkwardness) and then later at work feeling always ununderstood.
For high IQ people social missunderstanding is a huge issue, and since having greater IQ is perceived as a positive thing they get no comprension but envy or hate or are treated as if they were pretending or be arrogant.
Suicide rates, substance abuse, and failure to build a happy live is huge in a very large percentage of gifted people.
- coldtea 4y agoIt might not be the high IQ per se, as I know a few very high IQ well-adjusted people. In the cases you've mentioned it's probably some combination of high IQ and some position "on the spectrum" (which together can be more alienating than e.g. mere Aspergers).