There is no shortage of contexts in which HN will happily tell me it is not ok for me to be able to do something because there are some other people who might d

There is no shortage of contexts in which HN will happily tell me it is not ok for me to be able to do something because there are some other people who might do it wrong in a way that has some minor negative effect on others (heck, half the time the effect isn't even guaranteed, it's just a risk) and I should just bend over and take it with a grin because that's the pro social thing to do. Why is this any different? And to be clear, IDGAF about Indian food. IDGAF about people who microwave fish in the office. My dispute is with cognitive dissonance.