It's not dating. see http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32488 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32488 "And I could imagine that if you would ask them, the

It's not dating. see http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32488 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32488 "And I could imagine that if you would ask them, they might be willing to give you more specific information." Not so.