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For the motivated, these communities still exist - but without the sermon. Volunteer groups, sports, hobby groups, hiking meetups, dance classes, or the neares
by swagasaurus-rex 4y ago
For the motivated, these communities still exist - but without the sermon.
Volunteer groups, sports, hobby groups, hiking meetups, dance classes, or the nearest bar. YMMV
- tsol 4y agoThis is somewhat true but it only works for some. The issue is that it requires motivation, whereas the church did not. I think a lot of the bitterness in modern society is from the people in that gap, the people aren't able to motivate themselves perhaps due to depression or circumstances. The other issue with that is it does require some level of social skills. Someone highly autistic, for example, would likely have a hard time meeting people by dancing. There needs to be somewhere for these people to connect with the rest of society
- stevenicr 4y agoWhile I agree that 'requires motivation' is a thing, and likely more of an issue than others, I must add that location may many times be a bigger thing for many people / places. Being close to a hip city and having no trouble traveling, I did find motivation (for actually going, doing the scheduling, etc) to be a thing - and there are sometimes many layers to that thing. As I encouraged others to do meetup dot com and find groups to hang with - I found that people do indeed have to muster up the motivation - but also location can be an challenge / obstacle. I also think meetup has changed with less options, partially for pandemic but also they went pay to play for listing groups I think? Looking forward to more decentralized group listings and virtual water coolers in the future, maybe web rings coming back to help with that. Also been planning to open more real world 'third place' options hopefully - scouting locations and sketching ideas anyhow.