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> I absolutely don't blame my first girlfriend for leaving. Good, it shouldn’t be about blame, neither her nor you, it just wasn’t meant to be. I get the sense
by nyokodo 4y ago
> I absolutely don't blame my first girlfriend for leaving.
Good, it shouldn’t be about blame, neither her nor you, it just wasn’t meant to be. I get the sense that you’d benefit from talking to a therapist about this if you aren’t already and have the means. Basically everyone benefits from talking through matters like this with a professional. Good luck!
- 999900000999 4y agoI've actually tried therapy again rather recently. I definitely have the income to afford it, but it hasn't been super effective so far. The money doesn't really matter, but I'm afraid I might just be wasting my time.
- nyokodo 4y ago> I've actually tried therapy again rather recently....I'm afraid I might just be wasting my time It can take a few tries to find the right therapist too. I encourage you to keep it up and see what happens.