> instead it's a good sounding board to see what different things I could try to do differently. > The fact that so many comments here are evidence of a "probl

> instead it's a good sounding board to see what different things I could try to do differently. > The fact that so many comments here are evidence of a "problem" thus is a great opportunity in disguise. This is the kind of self-reflection and maturity which makes the comments about you actually not able to admit when your wrong so much more absurd > A trait I have heard about often in autistic communities is how hard it is to let go of something if you can't explain it. That is definitely very true of myself. Seems to track with my experience as my wife is on the spectrum. She can find it hard to have someone not understand her or some truth about reality and she feels a strong desire to keep engaging until they do. Can be both a blessing or a curse - the latter moreso when she doesn't realize she is dealing with someone who is bad faith - but she is getting better at recognizing that.