You also need to pass a minimum bar for looks, and if you don't have the gift of gab you need to be properly introduced. Fortunately, I'm somewhat older, and in

You also need to pass a minimum bar for looks, and if you don't have the gift of gab you need to be properly introduced. Fortunately, I'm somewhat older, and in my pool the women don't all need me to be as exciting as that stunt double across the room. But being a decent person is merely necessary, not sufficient. Women have always had a higher bar than men, because they are not ruled by their d1(xs.