Regretfully, I can't. I'm not "in the field", I don't run in NLP circles, and my interest in it waned after I had alleviated some personal problems I was deali

Regretfully, I can't. I'm not "in the field", I don't run in NLP circles, and my interest in it waned after I had alleviated some personal problems I was dealing with. However, as general advice, I could recommend reading "Get the Life You Want" https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3803577-get-the-life-you-want https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3803577-get-the-life-you... Try out the exercises in that book to get the idea and then maybe seek out a local study group?