> My advice: get lucky. That's actually great and actionable advice. The more draws you have the better chances you get to luck out. The actionable part is th

> My advice: get lucky. That's actually great and actionable advice. The more draws you have the better chances you get to luck out. The actionable part is the draw participation and you participate with your each interaction multiplied with your relevancy surface. Do you know who did not luck out with your former manager? Those who did not had a company that does the things you do and those who might have had but did not interact with your ex manager. IMHO lucking out is a very straightforward strategy and is relevant not only in business but in romantic relationships or friendships or any other partnerships. Just don't expect to luck out on your first try and multiple participations is much easier than trying to design the luck on first try.