My team (SWE) does a week-long tier 2 oncall shift ~every 6 weeks. It's very disruptive to my life (although it doesn't seem to bother people without young kids

My team (SWE) does a week-long tier 2 oncall shift ~every 6 weeks. It's very disruptive to my life (although it doesn't seem to bother people without young kids or with stay-at-home partners). I would flat out refuse a team with more frequent oncall, even if it were tier 3.