It's true: there are people in NYC who have a thing about going to New Jersey. But ... Who cares? You work in the city, go out in the city, and you have a sh

It's true: there are people in NYC who have a thing about going to New Jersey. But ... Who cares? You work in the city, go out in the city, and you have a short PATH-ride home to decompress. It's fine, and if the city rents are what's blocking you moving there, give it a try. You might end up moving into the city later with some of your new friends, or not. It's also a useful filter: people unwilling to go to New Jersey have an irrational prejudice and learning that about them can be illuminating.