I'm not gatekeeping anything. I'm saying that you should consider the context/situation where you're at and not bring in your loaded expectations (i.e., gatekee

I'm not gatekeeping anything. I'm saying that you should consider the context/situation where you're at and not bring in your loaded expectations (i.e., gatekeeping in reverse) to force others into behaving how you please. You wouldn't go to Sea World and expect to not get splashed.