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This topic has been on my mind for a couple years now, and it's interesting how I came to a similar conclusion as the author. There are a ton of things I reall
by zorrolovsky 4y ago
This topic has been on my mind for a couple years now, and it's interesting how I came to a similar conclusion as the author.
There are a ton of things I really enjoy doing: running, boxing, playing music, writing, drawing... however, I always struggle to get started. It always feels like a chore and I'm baffled as to why. I should be excited about initiating any of those activities, but I'm not! The moment they enter a to-do list, I know they also enter the realm of procrastination and avoidance. It's weird.
As I grow older and more experience, I realize "it's all in the mind". If you have the right mindset towards the activity you want to do, you have 80%+ of the job done.
Using running as an example, I went from running a couple days per week to running every day. Why? Simply put, a mentality shift.
Before, I would think about it as "I should run at least 30 mins, 3 days per week". Now, I think about it as: "Let's move a bit, go to that nice canal by the river". In a nutshell... I moved my mindset from "I must be disciplined" to "let's play", pretty much as the author states.
- highfrequency 4y ago> The moment a task enters a to-do list, I know it also enters the realm of procrastination and avoidance. It's weird. Well put! It's like our mind is telling itself: "if I need to be told to do this and reminded to do it, it must not be very fun."
- Jorchime 4y agoHow do you apply the mind-shift to projects where you have to finish something in order to advance? I have a couple of songs here that need mixing, but since they entered my to-do list, they are in procrastination realm ... But sometimes the thing you like is mostly about doing the thing and leaves little room for playing.