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I think there are maybe other reasons to believe a retirement home may be less fun than a dorm.

• watwut 4y ago
  One of them is sign of being more capable and more independent. The other is sign of being less capable and in need of more help. One of them is getting ready for future career. Other is getting closer to death.
• bequanna 4y ago
  Mindset probably has a lot to do with it. Knowing you’re at the beginning vs the end. Most older people that don’t have Alzheimer’s or dementia are quite aware of their mortality. We will all get there someday, but I certainly have a lot of respect for those older people that are able to handle aging with so much grace.
• troppl 4y ago
  I think the other commenters here really don't get what you mean or have never been to a retirement home. For people that really don't understand how this is not a good example: retirement homes reek of death. Even if you yourself are still fit, most people there won't be. This means that even though you would have the (mental/physical) capacity to enjoy your time there, you first need to find the few people that have that as well. Compare that to a college dorm, where almost everyone wants to socialize... It really isn't just about mindset! Sure, that will have something to do with it, but it's really a minor part, and even then, it will be much much much harder to have a positive mindset there then in a college dorm. (Again, I'm not saying it's not possible - I'm really just trying to make people empathize with older people that don't want to go into a retirement home. I think that it's a really reasonable thing not wanting to go there)