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This article fails to mention that one big reason why teenagers rebel is to make their parents feel better about them leaving the nest by increasing emotional r
by wallflower 15y ago
This article fails to mention that one big reason why teenagers rebel is to make their parents feel better about them leaving the nest by increasing emotional rejection.
> These studies show that reproductive maturation and pubertal timing are both contextually and socially mediated and accelerated by intrafamilial stress. Therefore, the literature demonstrates that pubertal maturation both provokes and follows from increased parent-child conflict. In sum, this new research has demonstrated that pubertal timing can no longer be viewed as only a physiological and hormonal process but must be examined in association with social and psychobiological processes.
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- xutopia 15y agoWhat about the terrible 2s? My kid is not even two and I already can't wait till she moves out. /jk
- Egregore 15y agoIt's when you're to soft, you should not give in to his screaming, and should only agree to do things for him/her only when kid is not screaming, so he will not learn to use cries as a tool to get things done.