> Note that I am a jerk if I refuse requests that you consider reasonable. Note that's not quite what I said: I said that if you refuse requests that I consid

> Note that I am a jerk if I refuse requests that you consider reasonable. Note that's not quite what I said: I said that if you refuse requests that I consider reasonable, that I will think you're a jerk. > I may ignore it when it's irrelevant, but if it becomes relevant Like, what, if she asks you on a date? Otherwise, largely, none of your business. And if it's the date thing, I'd encourage you to decline kindly. > But if we are talking about a task that requires visual acuity, and I point out that you seem to have an issue in that department Then you'd actually be wrong. It's largely cosmetic.