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> LGBTQ community's longstanding objection to the implications of "sexual preference" So longstanding that not a peep of complaint is heard when Democracts use

> LGBTQ community's longstanding objection to the implications of "sexual preference" So longstanding that not a peep of complaint is heard when Democracts use it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FsYGOAVqmQI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FsYGOAVqmQI Or Ruth Bader Ginsburg, in a 2017 interview: "Our society has come to respect people, whatever their sexual preference," Ginsburg said. - https://freebeacon.com/courts/barrett-shredded-for-saying-sexual-preference-but-biden-democrats-have-said-it-for-years/ https://freebeacon.com/courts/barrett-shredded-for-saying-se... But I'm sure there's a very sophisticated, nuanced distinction I'm missing, that explains the different treatment as totally not partisan gaslighting. Starting with an explanation for why "preference" is considered changeable - I can't make myself prefer one food over another, but maybe I'm an exception.

notahacker 4y ago
I mean, here's a media style guide from 2003 citing the American Psychological Association to warn against the "problematic" use of "preference". https://web.archive.org/web/20120813022744/http://www.colby.edu/psychology/APA/Gender.pdf https://web.archive.org/web/20120813022744/http://www.colby.... Perhaps it was the work of time travellers desperate to create the impression that Amy Coney Barrett is not a born again liberal, or perhaps, if the extent of your knowledge of the debate is restricted to gotcha videos involving Democrat politicians from the Washington Free Beacon, you're not particularly qualified to tell people with a personal stake in the debate that they actually invented all the longstanding objections to "preference" to criticise a foreign judge's comments they were barely even aware of, that they're the ones indulging in partisan gaslighting...
- AinderS 4y ago
  Well if this was so widely know since 2003, it's odd how it took 17 years before any politician took objection to it, until that confirmation hearing, isn't it? That was the exact moment everyone got the memo? Call it a "gotcha" video all you want, but it's clear to everyone else what it is - a plain as day demonstration of double standards. Of course politicians being self-serving hypocrites isn't news, or limited to Democrats, as the Republicans demonstrated when they argued it isn't appropriate to make a Supreme Court appointment near the end of Obama's term, only to find it very appropriate when they got to appoint a judge. What is news is that now dictionaries cooperate in their hypocrisy.
  - notahacker 4y ago
    I mean, no, it's not really at all odd that a phrase that raised niche and context-specific objections for years got its first objection publicised well enough for you to be aware of it when it involved a forensic examination of Supreme Court appointee's interview statements, and not some other people making less scrutinised remarks that weren't also allegedly evading upholding Obergefell as settled precedent. It's also perfectly reasonable to think this might be a little unfair on said jurist who had little reason to have traced the history of the uses of "sexual preference". What is novel is your insistence that it makes more sense to assume dictionaries conspiring against conservative jurists are a more logical explanation for Merriam Webster adding an advisory warning to a definition other authoritative style guides cautioned about in 1991, 2003, and 2013 than it was headline news today, and lots of people asked so we looked into it. Some might say making a change three decades after others wasn't that rapid...
    - AinderS 4y ago
      > lots of people asked so we looked into it. And what did they find? That the term was routinely used within the LGBT community and never remarked on as offensive [1,2]? Or did they neglect to apply even the minimum of scrutiny, and simply took the word of grievance experts and hypocritical politicians as gospel, and presented it as a majority, widely-held belief in their dictionary? I should note even the implication that 'preference' implies choice is utterly made up - I prefer chocolate to carrots, and blues to polka, yet I cannot choose to change those preferences. Whereas I am currently oriented south, and it is trivial to change that and re-orient myself to face west instead. > some other people making less scrutinised remarks Not just "some other people" - Joe Biden used the term while running for president. A presidential candidate's statements are usually closely scrutinized. You are fooling nobody who does not want to be fooled. [1] https://www.dailywire.com/news/lgbt-websites-now-say-sexual-preference-is-an-offensive-term-they-were-fine-with-it-last-month https://www.dailywire.com/news/lgbt-websites-now-say-sexual-... [2] https://thepostmillennial.com/sexual-preference-is-not-an-offensive-term-to-the-lgbt-community https://thepostmillennial.com/sexual-preference-is-not-an-of...
      - 4y ago

notahacker 4y ago

I mean, here's a media style guide from 2003 citing the American Psychological Association to warn against the "problematic" use of "preference". https://web.archive.org/web/20120813022744/http://www.colby.edu/psychology/APA/Gender.pdf https://web.archive.org/web/20120813022744/http://www.colby.... Perhaps it was the work of time travellers desperate to create the impression that Amy Coney Barrett is not a born again liberal, or perhaps, if the extent of your knowledge of the debate is restricted to gotcha videos involving Democrat politicians from the Washington Free Beacon, you're not particularly qualified to tell people with a personal stake in the debate that they actually invented all the longstanding objections to "preference" to criticise a foreign judge's comments they were barely even aware of, that they're the ones indulging in partisan gaslighting...

AinderS 4y ago
Well if this was so widely know since 2003, it's odd how it took 17 years before any politician took objection to it, until that confirmation hearing, isn't it? That was the exact moment everyone got the memo? Call it a "gotcha" video all you want, but it's clear to everyone else what it is - a plain as day demonstration of double standards. Of course politicians being self-serving hypocrites isn't news, or limited to Democrats, as the Republicans demonstrated when they argued it isn't appropriate to make a Supreme Court appointment near the end of Obama's term, only to find it very appropriate when they got to appoint a judge. What is news is that now dictionaries cooperate in their hypocrisy.
- notahacker 4y ago
  I mean, no, it's not really at all odd that a phrase that raised niche and context-specific objections for years got its first objection publicised well enough for you to be aware of it when it involved a forensic examination of Supreme Court appointee's interview statements, and not some other people making less scrutinised remarks that weren't also allegedly evading upholding Obergefell as settled precedent. It's also perfectly reasonable to think this might be a little unfair on said jurist who had little reason to have traced the history of the uses of "sexual preference". What is novel is your insistence that it makes more sense to assume dictionaries conspiring against conservative jurists are a more logical explanation for Merriam Webster adding an advisory warning to a definition other authoritative style guides cautioned about in 1991, 2003, and 2013 than it was headline news today, and lots of people asked so we looked into it. Some might say making a change three decades after others wasn't that rapid...
  - AinderS 4y ago
    > lots of people asked so we looked into it. And what did they find? That the term was routinely used within the LGBT community and never remarked on as offensive [1,2]? Or did they neglect to apply even the minimum of scrutiny, and simply took the word of grievance experts and hypocritical politicians as gospel, and presented it as a majority, widely-held belief in their dictionary? I should note even the implication that 'preference' implies choice is utterly made up - I prefer chocolate to carrots, and blues to polka, yet I cannot choose to change those preferences. Whereas I am currently oriented south, and it is trivial to change that and re-orient myself to face west instead. > some other people making less scrutinised remarks Not just "some other people" - Joe Biden used the term while running for president. A presidential candidate's statements are usually closely scrutinized. You are fooling nobody who does not want to be fooled. [1] https://www.dailywire.com/news/lgbt-websites-now-say-sexual-preference-is-an-offensive-term-they-were-fine-with-it-last-month https://www.dailywire.com/news/lgbt-websites-now-say-sexual-... [2] https://thepostmillennial.com/sexual-preference-is-not-an-offensive-term-to-the-lgbt-community https://thepostmillennial.com/sexual-preference-is-not-an-of...
    - 4y ago