I'm not sure what you are trying to convey here. Changing oil and car tires, shooting a gun, fishing and performing basic repairs critical life skills that eve

I'm not sure what you are trying to convey here. Changing oil and car tires, shooting a gun, fishing and performing basic repairs critical life skills that everyone should learn. If you are an adult male and can't complete some of the most basic tasks without help, you will have a difficult time living on your own. Loving yourself, being "proud" of homosexuality (I find this rather odd; why make your "sexuality" your core identity?) and knowing how to navigate the world are not mutually exclusive.