Keep in mind that most of these are just rants about the developer experience, which is sacrificed in exchange for faster iteration and deployments on majority

Keep in mind that most of these are just rants about the developer experience, which is sacrificed in exchange for faster iteration and deployments on majority of business use cases. As a Node.js developer myself I even noticed that some of the best solutions is nodejs plus other language. Examples uwebsockets.js uses some c++ code. it is faster and has better api than express, fastify, hapi, koa, and has builtin websockets support. esbuild uses golang code. it is faster than webpack and babel for bundling and minifying javascript code.