If it was really the case then an anxious person should be able to talk themselves out of anxiety. Aiming for a goal is great, but that's kinda not ambitious e

If it was really the case then an anxious person should be able to talk themselves out of anxiety. Aiming for a goal is great, but that's kinda not ambitious enough. Real ambition is reaching that goal with minimum effort and minimum headaches (or anxiety). By self-inflicting headaches and anxiety on the very get go , you are also automatically waiving the best and pretty much sole optimal outcome. Not very ambitious of you, isn't it? I don't know if this can help anybody. I drew inspiration from Bill Gates quote : "I will always pick a lazy person to do some hard task because they'll find the least resource intensive way of doing it" something like that, the gist was anyway.