"Scary" -- today's leading Condescending word. "Change is scary" coming along right behind. How TF do they know what you find "scary" or not? Or does it just l

"Scary" -- today's leading Condescending word. "Change is scary" coming along right behind. How TF do they know what you find "scary" or not? Or does it just let them weasel out of the fact that you just don't believe them?