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> It's a shame we can't discuss obvious language bias without you becoming defensive about imagined sleights. Just wait a few years, I feel like this nearly-sa
by kleer001 4y ago
> It's a shame we can't discuss obvious language bias without you becoming defensive about imagined sleights.
Just wait a few years, I feel like this nearly-satanic-panic level of sensitivity will pass. Maybe a decade or so.
- wnolens 4y agoOh God I can't wait that long. It's so hard to make friends in North America right now.
- kleer001 4y agoIMHO the golden years for making friends are the school years, peaking in High School and College. After that it's a desert compared to that oasis. That said there's a cheat I've heard of for the terminally lonely extravert: Clubs and Volunteering. I haven't tried either myself as I'm an introvert and near hermit happy with my three super-extravert friends that only need to hear from me a couple times a year. Then there's the ultimate cheat, get married and have kids. Totally worth it, IMHO.