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> How often do you get to a successful resolution of a dispute when you start from the position that one side's concerns are made up (pretended, imagined, etc)?
by bandyaboot 4y ago
> How often do you get to a successful resolution of a dispute when you start from the position that one side's concerns are made up (pretended, imagined, etc)?
There are times when one side's concerns are nonsense. Brainwashed Russians believing Ukraine is overrun by Nazis. People who believe that the 2020 election was stolen. I choose not to gaslight myself into entertaining that nonsense and entertaining the notion that there's a successful resolution to be had.
- ifyoubuildit 4y ago> There are times when one side's concerns are nonsense I envy your confidence. I also hope I never find myself under your authority.
- bandyaboot 4y ago> I also hope I never find myself under your authority. Luckily I have no interest in being an authority over anyone--too much expectation of coddling the underlings.