I want the social network equivalent of "slow food": All social networks try to optimise for very the wrong metrics for the users, but right metrics for their c

I want the social network equivalent of "slow food": All social networks try to optimise for very the wrong metrics for the users, but right metrics for their customers (advertisers). I want a social network where it is OK for people to sporadically add vanal posts. A social network that does not prioritize outrage or contention. And a social network were my close circle is actually discoverable, with high SNR.