Yeah also agreed. I wasn't super impressed by the article, don't really find this to be a magic solution. It's solid when what you want is to avoid immediate pu

Yeah also agreed. I wasn't super impressed by the article, don't really find this to be a magic solution. It's solid when what you want is to avoid immediate pushback especially in public, and you don't mind generating some resentment in the other party for it. That describes plenty of situations but nowhere near all.