My ex asking a divorce. It taught me some lessons (the hard way): - Nothing is yours, you only borrow things. Everything is temporary. - Focus on the things y

My ex asking a divorce. It taught me some lessons (the hard way): - Nothing is yours, you only borrow things. Everything is temporary. - Focus on the things you do have. Your base level should be "nothing", not what you currently have. Be happy with the things you take for granted. - It really is all about the journey, because there is no destination. My divorce changed the course of my life so much that the first years it felt like living in a parallell universe.