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Many reasons have been stated but I would like to add one: It does not matter and it would only hurt your feelings. This is not solely about you or them its a

• wruza 4y ago
  There are answers (unless their verbalization skills suck), but too many people don’t like to hear them and will argue or fight back. Btw, one of successful dating advices I remember was to create a detailed realistic image of a partner beforehand and compare/ask about it on a date. No need to make it strict, but this simply makes you aware of what you want (or not) in a relaxed state instead of allowing your sub to decide under pressure or effect of the moment. Sounds reasonable and pretty sure if true then that applies to jobs as well.
  • paskozdilar 4y ago
    > There are answers (unless their verbalization skills suck), but too many people don’t like to hear them and will argue or fight back. I agree there are always answers, but nobody should be obligated to give them. "Because I don't want to" should be a perfectly acceptable answer to any question of why we're denying a request. Assuming, of course, we are familiar with the consequences of not completing the request and okay with them.