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Kids is a popular excuse. See also fucked up divorce laws, etc. See also the good intentions pavement system so well known on roads leading to hell.

• JetAlone 4y ago
  Kid's'd be better off with a repressed parent, or an impoverished deserter parent, than a cheater. Cheating kills the trust in both parents, because the cheater becomes a disgusting liar and the one cheated on will likely be seen as too weak or otherwise unfitting, to be a good role model. Either way the child will doubt the value of the parents they even came from. That really leads to hell, for the whole family.
  • NoSorryCannot 4y ago
    Quite a yarn you're spinning. But can it be even more reductive and clichéd?
    • headsoup 4y ago
      I sense a religious undertone... The type that would force the sanctity of marriage at all costs to avoid 'sin' and save face with God. Maybe also with some warped victim blaming and sexism thrown in for good measure, topped with a generous helping of sanctimony. Maybe...
      • JetAlone 4y ago
        Yeah, yeah, "Up yours woke religious moralists. We'll see who condemns who."
• collegeburner 4y ago
  there's plenty of couples that are amicably separated and take care of their kids fine, even some who still share a house (though not many tbh). besides it's still their fault for having kids without being sure they can handle the comittment then not being willing to stick with it.
  • pas 4y ago
    > without being sure they can handle the comittment then not being willing to stick with it. that bar is so high, I applaud anyone who can even comprehend it.