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gotta say, while a decent instructable, the completely unnecessary use of the r word near the beginning really turned me off. Almost stopped right there.

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Gigachad 4y ago
- dfbsdfbwe2ef2e 4y ago
ftkftk 4y ago
Agreed.
krastanov 4y ago
This is probably a bit of a cultural difference. Not every English-speaking country considers the word "retarded" an ableist insult (as in, for many it has nothing to do semantically or etymologically with differently abled people). Same as the way Australians use the word "cunt" very differently than Americans.
- ZeroGravitas 4y ago
  Another related example is "spaz" which in UK English is basically synonymous with "retard" as used in US English. As wiktionary notes, the offensiveness even within countries is variable: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/spaz https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/spaz But if you're writing for the wider english-speaking/reading internet, you probably want to be aware of these things to avoid unintentional offence, just as I assume Australians modulate their usage of 'cunt' for different audiences online.
- corrral 4y ago
  It's a pretty damn recent shift even in the US. Tons of movies from the 00s up to the early part of the 20-teens still used it freely and there was no major uproar over it—in general, no-one thought anything of it. Practically no-one bothered to write "r-word" when discussing it rather than just using the term. It can be jarring to hear in otherwise tame movies, now that we're conditioned to shun the word, but I'm pretty sure that conditioning is something that only a minority of people in the US have been exposed to, even today. Mostly those of us who are online too much, probably. Outside that sort of bubble I'm not sure how "problematic" it's actually considered to be, by the average person.
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  - cptskippy 4y ago
    I struggle with using it and frankly struggle with understanding why people are so offended by it. People seem to be orders of magnitude more offended by using it than calling someone an idiot, moron, mentally challenged, developmentally delayed, or saying they have an IDD. The outrage honestly just comes off as white knighting.
    - dwringer 4y ago
      I think "idiot" and "moron" have lost their edge because they've been so ubiquitous for so long they don't mean anything more than, basically, a euphemism for "dumbass".* The other terms you mentioned are just as offensive as the "r-word" in that context IMHO. Same for people who use "autism"/"autist" as a jokey insult. Using terms like that as insults in a public forum is in bad taste and unnecessarily likely to hurt someone's feelings over something over which they have absolutely no control. *I'm aware these terms used to be more in line with the others, but frankly I'd also question the wisdom of using them in a public forum.
      - cptskippy 4y ago
        > I think "idiot" and "moron" have lost their edge because they've been so ubiquitous for so long they don't mean anything more than, basically, a euphemism for "dumbass".* The other terms you mentioned are just as offensive as the "r-word" in that context IMHO. A dumbass is someone who is stupid or foolish. Stupid, fool, idiot, and moron are all terms that at one point or another were used to describe those with an IDD. They're all still acceptable insults AFAIK, but now not the "r-word". For the longest time it was a fairly tepid insult but suddenly has, for reasons unclear to be, become outrageous and objectionable on par with the "n-word". > I'm aware these terms used to be more in line with the others, but frankly I'd also question the wisdom of using them in a public forum. It goes beyond insults though, the term has become completely unacceptable as a witticism or in a self deprecating manner. It just seems arbitrary to me and feels like an arbitrary change to give someone the opportunity to seize the moral high ground in a disagreement by labeling you ableist. Idk, I guess I'm just old an can't keep up. The day someone labels me an "ist" for saying "I'm an idiot" is the day I'm burning it all down.
mhb 4y ago
"reports"?

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Gigachad 4y ago

dfbsdfbwe2ef2e 4y ago

ftkftk 4y ago

Agreed.

krastanov 4y ago

This is probably a bit of a cultural difference. Not every English-speaking country considers the word "retarded" an ableist insult (as in, for many it has nothing to do semantically or etymologically with differently abled people). Same as the way Australians use the word "cunt" very differently than Americans.

ZeroGravitas 4y ago
Another related example is "spaz" which in UK English is basically synonymous with "retard" as used in US English. As wiktionary notes, the offensiveness even within countries is variable: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/spaz https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/spaz But if you're writing for the wider english-speaking/reading internet, you probably want to be aware of these things to avoid unintentional offence, just as I assume Australians modulate their usage of 'cunt' for different audiences online.
corrral 4y ago
It's a pretty damn recent shift even in the US. Tons of movies from the 00s up to the early part of the 20-teens still used it freely and there was no major uproar over it—in general, no-one thought anything of it. Practically no-one bothered to write "r-word" when discussing it rather than just using the term. It can be jarring to hear in otherwise tame movies, now that we're conditioned to shun the word, but I'm pretty sure that conditioning is something that only a minority of people in the US have been exposed to, even today. Mostly those of us who are online too much, probably. Outside that sort of bubble I'm not sure how "problematic" it's actually considered to be, by the average person.
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- cptskippy 4y ago
  I struggle with using it and frankly struggle with understanding why people are so offended by it. People seem to be orders of magnitude more offended by using it than calling someone an idiot, moron, mentally challenged, developmentally delayed, or saying they have an IDD. The outrage honestly just comes off as white knighting.
  - dwringer 4y ago
    I think "idiot" and "moron" have lost their edge because they've been so ubiquitous for so long they don't mean anything more than, basically, a euphemism for "dumbass".* The other terms you mentioned are just as offensive as the "r-word" in that context IMHO. Same for people who use "autism"/"autist" as a jokey insult. Using terms like that as insults in a public forum is in bad taste and unnecessarily likely to hurt someone's feelings over something over which they have absolutely no control. *I'm aware these terms used to be more in line with the others, but frankly I'd also question the wisdom of using them in a public forum.
    - cptskippy 4y ago
      > I think "idiot" and "moron" have lost their edge because they've been so ubiquitous for so long they don't mean anything more than, basically, a euphemism for "dumbass".* The other terms you mentioned are just as offensive as the "r-word" in that context IMHO. A dumbass is someone who is stupid or foolish. Stupid, fool, idiot, and moron are all terms that at one point or another were used to describe those with an IDD. They're all still acceptable insults AFAIK, but now not the "r-word". For the longest time it was a fairly tepid insult but suddenly has, for reasons unclear to be, become outrageous and objectionable on par with the "n-word". > I'm aware these terms used to be more in line with the others, but frankly I'd also question the wisdom of using them in a public forum. It goes beyond insults though, the term has become completely unacceptable as a witticism or in a self deprecating manner. It just seems arbitrary to me and feels like an arbitrary change to give someone the opportunity to seize the moral high ground in a disagreement by labeling you ableist. Idk, I guess I'm just old an can't keep up. The day someone labels me an "ist" for saying "I'm an idiot" is the day I'm burning it all down.

mhb 4y ago

"reports"?