Indeed it's a better way to put it than my comment: it's not as important to note than faking it is hard, rather that really understanding it is something that

Indeed it's a better way to put it than my comment: it's not as important to note than faking it is hard, rather that really understanding it is something that goes deeper than an exchange of words. However, I would say that it's ok to start with just the words. There is a first step to everything.