You can't have an abortion - you had sex deal with the consequences of your choice, even if it means your death from complications in pregnancy. vs You can't

You can't have an abortion - you had sex deal with the consequences of your choice, even if it means your death from complications in pregnancy. vs You can't have your tubes tied - there might be consequences to your choice so you shouldn't have to deal with those. What's different here? Oh right, nothing if the goal is forcing birth.