There was another HNer casting such aspersions before you who deleted their comment but it was also not nice. Honestly, folks, who hurt you and what makes you

There was another HNer casting such aspersions before you who deleted their comment but it was also not nice. Honestly, folks, who hurt you and what makes you want to hurt others with this vile stuff? Be kind please. Is it so unthinkable that women and men can go out there and be honest with each other?