> This assumes sexual performance in a relationship is worth optimizing for. I think this is sending the wrong signal to readers. Yes, ninety percent of the ti

> This assumes sexual performance in a relationship is worth optimizing for. I think this is sending the wrong signal to readers. Yes, ninety percent of the time it is worth optimizing for. It's literally what we're wired to do and your partner will appreciate it. That doesn't mean that that ten percent of an outlier doesn't exist but broadcasting doubt that it is worth optimizing for is not the wisdom most people need to hear.