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Wife and I are in an open relationship, this is anecdotal: number of men she's hooked up with who get performance anxiety is massive like it's at least 60 to 70

Wife and I are in an open relationship, this is anecdotal: number of men she's hooked up with who get performance anxiety is massive like it's at least 60 to 70 percent of men who have a hard time getting and maintaining an erection.

theplumber 4y ago
- emptysongglass 4y ago
  Why would she be playing me? I often get videos with the men's consent (when she's found a guy who, ahem, functions) so I don't think there's anything to play me for.
  - theplumber 4y ago
    >> Why would she be playing me? To keep the status quo.
    - emptysongglass 4y ago
      What's the status quo, exactly? You seem to be pitching a whole lot of negative assumptions for someone who knows nothing about me.
      - theplumber 4y ago
        >> What's the status quo, exactly? If your wife would tell you are mediocre compared with the guys she meets, would you still be "open" to the open relationship?
    - imbnwa 4y ago
      He already refuted your implicit gender assumption
      - theplumber 4y ago
        His wife meets only guys who cannot "function" sexually because most of the guys that get sexually involved do not function sexually, right? Is she that unlucky? His wife either assumes he's aware that's not really true or is taking him for a fool. Perhaps she is selling him the "didn't function" to spare her of the story telling/video tape. The trick is as old as the world.
- 1658512800 4y ago
  Have you considered that the primary partners in an open relationship can be both honest and secure within themselves?
  - theplumber 4y ago
    Then why does she feel the need to tell him that 70% of men do not function sexually? I think he is the insecure guy and she is selling him the "functionality" issue of her dates. To me it is obvious.
    - tinym 4y ago
zeroonetwothree 4y ago
- thunkshift1 4y ago
  edgy redditor who thinks he’s being witty spotted
- emptysongglass 4y ago
  There was another HNer casting such aspersions before you who deleted their comment but it was also not nice. Honestly, folks, who hurt you and what makes you want to hurt others with this vile stuff? Be kind please. Is it so unthinkable that women and men can go out there and be honest with each other?
nonamenoslogan 4y ago

theplumber 4y ago

emptysongglass 4y ago
Why would she be playing me? I often get videos with the men's consent (when she's found a guy who, ahem, functions) so I don't think there's anything to play me for.
- theplumber 4y ago
  >> Why would she be playing me? To keep the status quo.
  - emptysongglass 4y ago
    What's the status quo, exactly? You seem to be pitching a whole lot of negative assumptions for someone who knows nothing about me.
    - theplumber 4y ago
      >> What's the status quo, exactly? If your wife would tell you are mediocre compared with the guys she meets, would you still be "open" to the open relationship?
  - imbnwa 4y ago
    He already refuted your implicit gender assumption
    - theplumber 4y ago
      His wife meets only guys who cannot "function" sexually because most of the guys that get sexually involved do not function sexually, right? Is she that unlucky? His wife either assumes he's aware that's not really true or is taking him for a fool. Perhaps she is selling him the "didn't function" to spare her of the story telling/video tape. The trick is as old as the world.
1658512800 4y ago
Have you considered that the primary partners in an open relationship can be both honest and secure within themselves?
- theplumber 4y ago
  Then why does she feel the need to tell him that 70% of men do not function sexually? I think he is the insecure guy and she is selling him the "functionality" issue of her dates. To me it is obvious.
  - tinym 4y ago

zeroonetwothree 4y ago

thunkshift1 4y ago
edgy redditor who thinks he’s being witty spotted
emptysongglass 4y ago
There was another HNer casting such aspersions before you who deleted their comment but it was also not nice. Honestly, folks, who hurt you and what makes you want to hurt others with this vile stuff? Be kind please. Is it so unthinkable that women and men can go out there and be honest with each other?

nonamenoslogan 4y ago