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Being overweight certainly isn't helpful.

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• astrange 4y ago
  Most Americans are overweight and most Americans are in relationships, so if you put these two together it seems like it’s not a deal breaker. Might be one under 30 though. (I looked those two things up separately but not together and am not sure what “overweight” means here. I, of course, am in perfect shape.)
  • lobocinza 4y ago
    The parent comment was that male date-ability centers around muscle mass. While 'centers' is a strong word it's obvious that being fit is an important factor to attractiveness. By overweight I mean people that are over BMI 25 (which unintended could also include 'roid people'). Over 30 I guess pragmatism wins and other things are more important. e.g. single mom in his 40s will look for caring man with stable life/income. I don't disagree with you. Being on any extreme negatively affects date-ability outside that niche. There's definitely an inflection point, probably around 'doesn't look natural/healthy', where muscle mass contribution is negative.