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You can only date a relatively small number of people. If a photo makes you less attractive to an average potential partner, but more attractive to potential pa
by stephencanon 4y ago
You can only date a relatively small number of people. If a photo makes you less attractive to an average potential partner, but more attractive to potential partners who will actually be into you, that’s a huge lever for prequalifying.
Which is to say you should basically always play up your quirks, not hide them.
- bogota 4y agoTrue but i think the comment you are responding too is commenting that “this was not my experience” can’t be known without more information. But to your point you only have so much time and it will likely help narrow down better long term partners if your profile is honest
- rvba 4y agoYou can get zero matches on tinder - what allows to verify that some things dont work
- bluefirebrand 4y ago> Which is to say you should basically always play up your quirks, not hide them. Not going to lie, I don't think this matters if you're a dude. I found that almost no women I dated even read my profile. I was always up front about liking video games, board games, tabletop rpgs and the number of times date #1 would end on "You Like Dungeons and Dragons!? Ugh" was higher than not. I don't mean literally the date ended there, just that there was no chance of a second date after that point.
- joshspankit 4y ago> You can only date a relatively small number of people. I think more people need to understand this. Like, if you sell something used you don’t need to craft the “perfect” ad or get tonnes of exposure on it. You only need to sell one.