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Male dateability centers around muscle mass. Pick up iron, not cats
by glouwbug 4y ago
Male dateability centers around muscle mass. Pick up iron, not cats
- collegeburner 4y agobased. and accurate tbh it's the biggest thing we can control physically maybe along with grooming. the "dad bod" shit is maximum cope from guys who arent willing to work off those extra 20lbs.
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- chungy 4y agoWould tigers count?
- ancientworldnow 4y agoTigers are a negative strike post tiger king doc.
- astrange 4y agoThat’s mostly good for dating other men. For women it’s only the psychological benefit you get from it. Anyway, if you’re dating a lot you’re failing. Should be taking advice from people who only had to go on one first date, they know how to pick winners.
- lobocinza 4y agoBeing overweight certainly isn't helpful.
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- astrange 4y agoMost Americans are overweight and most Americans are in relationships, so if you put these two together it seems like it’s not a deal breaker. Might be one under 30 though. (I looked those two things up separately but not together and am not sure what “overweight” means here. I, of course, am in perfect shape.)
- lobocinza 4y agoThe parent comment was that male date-ability centers around muscle mass. While 'centers' is a strong word it's obvious that being fit is an important factor to attractiveness. By overweight I mean people that are over BMI 25 (which unintended could also include 'roid people'). Over 30 I guess pragmatism wins and other things are more important. e.g. single mom in his 40s will look for caring man with stable life/income. I don't disagree with you. Being on any extreme negatively affects date-ability outside that niche. There's definitely an inflection point, probably around 'doesn't look natural/healthy', where muscle mass contribution is negative.